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“I like to use the metaphor that if your attacker had hit you over the head with a frying pan, you wouldn’t call it cooking,”Chaffers said. “Just because the event involved genitals doesn’t make it sexual. The person used masturbation as a weapon no different than a gun. It is violence.”

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Is jacking off in front of women a crime? I mean weird yes. Indecent expose only in public. Kramer told HuffPost she believes the urge to masturbate while forcing unwilling people to watch stems not only from the desire for power and control but also from feelings of anger, weakness, humiliation and shame.

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Canada Goose Jackets Sex therapist Alexandra Katehakis, who was interviewed by The Cut,described non consensual masturbation as a manifestation of “sexualized hostility” against their victims, which can sometimes be traced back to childhood trauma or abuse. Kramer seconded this possibility. Canada Goose Jackets

“Developmentally, we all go through different phases,”she said. “[Masturbation] would be [linked to] a phase in this person’s development they weren’t able to complete or finish. We see different pieces of ourselves stuck in different phases, and our behavior reflects that.

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“Some recent analysis says that a combination of traumatic events in childhood arerelated notpredictive of sexual abuse in some samples of offenders and that maybe neglect, and physical abuse are even more indicative,” Chaffers said.

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